After puberty, boys tend to groom and dress up as their hormones tell them it’s time for a partner. In that the human species is no different than our animal relatives. Our dress and style has to make us look good to the opposite sex. For that is our initial purpose in the cycle of life.
To any young man finding himself beginning to bald at the age of twenty is a terrible blow. First there is the covering up of the bald patch, later that careful combing with hair from the sides combed over. Any wind or rain can play havoc with that fine tuned hair do. Often the person feels humiliated when the baldness is exposed. The only person miserable is the bald person as everyone else was aware of the cover-up and had been sniggering behind the back anyway.
Being ashamed of the bald condition and losing all one’s self-confidence is a miserable situation. The bald jokes often told in bad taste can be humiliating and totally mortifying. Having no hope, one can be traumatised for life with this unhappy situation or one can just deal with it sensibly and lead a great life.
Many men solve their baldness by just shaving off their hair. For many this may work, though the shape of the head has to be taken into consideration and the total bald look may not suit everyone. Villains often seem to be bald guys, so the stereotyped bald bad guy. Not to worry though, some well known personalities too have cropped their bald heads like Andre Agassi and Bruce Willis and they look great.
Some baldies end up with a total wig or worse still a toupee. This can end up making the person look ridiculous and food for ridicule as everyone around will know it is a wig or toupee. The toupee can go askew and constant attention will have to be given to it. The toupee jokes will never end and the person will become more self conscious and can suffer crushingly.
Make bald is beautiful the motto and believe in it.
Personality and kindness are better ways to a girl’s heart than a head of glorious hair on an idiot. Making oneself interesting by widening the horizons and doing sports will all help overcome the attitude to baldness. Never be ashamed of the baldness but deal with it in a matter of fact way and people will automatically toe the line.
Dealing intelligently with premature hair loss can only open the way for a fuller and complete life style. Most women are attracted to interesting men not hairy ones, even though they could have got their attention first. So forget the worry and walk tall, bald or not!